The Lp is a great sp to own, as well as the curly. Just remember each spider has it's own personality, and the curly hair may be bitey, while the Lp may be very laid back, as opposed to their "typical" descriptions. I suggest the Lp, they grow faster than any T I've ever seen, they eat almost anytime you want to feed them, and they get hugely impressive in size. My current favorite T is my curly hair though, oddly enough. She completely ignores my presence, and I mean completely. She acts like royalty. Her name is Princess Shes about 3" Edit: Sorry I didn't read all the posts, but I still suggest you grab an LpI wanted either a Lasiodora parahybana, or Brachypelma albopilosum
(never going to remember these names, Been calling them the bird eater and the curly)
Trying to go with a good beginning T until I figure it all out, fairly sure its going to be a learning curve even with the research.