I have a rose hair tarantula that I bought as an adult from repticon in November I'm not sure of the gender but now I think she has laid an egg sac, my boyfriend found it under the log and didn't know what it was so he took it out and put it in a separate container and poked it with a spoon or something he said... Anyway when he told me and sent pics I told him to stop and be careful with it and put it back carefully... Is it ruined if it is an egg sac?? What do I do?