I do feel bad as he obviously really wants some lol but i only just got him so have no plans to ship him offMy Curly hair went nuts after his last molt (he matured on his last molt) he began doing sperm web all over sometimes 5-6 times a day then he would take it all down- he also tore his cage apart his hide and everything- it was actually pretty sad bc I am sure he just wanted to get some sexy lady T to make babies with- it's really turned me off buying anything other than females. I am considering shipping him out to someone for free with the stipulation they send me a sexed female when the time comes.. I just want him to get some before his time comes
What a waste of a male.
Many people feel that way, especially people new to the hobby. If I get attached to a male it's simple for me...I find a mature female for him. If you look, you will find one. It will cost you though...I'm currently looking for a mature female boehmei for my male, and he's only 4 inches, max, and not mature yet. I can't ship him though, so it means I'm getting a female. The hit to the wallet will be balanced by the excitement of breeding, possibly having a bunch of babies from a species I love, and a big new mature female that will live for years and years.
Perfectly normal. Find him a girl! I have a female I'm
Many people feel that way, especially people new to the hobby. If I get attached to a male it's simple for me...I find a mature female for him. If you look, you will find one. It will cost you though...I'm currently looking for a mature female boehmei for my male, and he's only 4 inches, max, and not mature yet. I can't ship him though, so it means I'm getting a female. The hit to the wallet will be balanced by the excitement of breeding, possibly having a bunch of babies from a species I love, and a big new mature female that will live for years and years.
Maybe i could look into someone local looking to breed but can not afford to get the male? i have heard people do this
You're not wasting him..some people just have rigid opinionsIf i could afford to provide him a female and breed them i would but unfortunately i can not. I'm sorry if anyone thinks i shouldn't have him if i can't do this or that i am wasting him
That changes with age, usually..I used to be the same way so I don't get too excited about it. By all means, search locally, you never know when you'll find someone in your area with the same interests as you. As long as you make an effort, there's no waste. My male stirmi matured and died a virgin. As far as I'm concerned, anyone who doesn't like it can kiss my @3!.
Your awesomeYou're not wasting him..some people just have rigid opinions
thank you! i LOVE my T very much and have wanted him since i was a little girl hehe i am going to look locally as like u say u never know someone could be interested My dog has matured and will die a virgin but his still very happy lol
i need to seriously consider if i can afford him a Girlfriend lol His a horny little devil
aye aye aye aye aye lolWell I want to be babied soooo you've got some decisions to make.. Just sayin
A person that's new to the hobby isnt going to want to box up their pet and ship it to a stranger for a breeding session that could very well end badly. I'm not sure what is so hard to understand about that.
I know I wouldn't say something like that, so I don't even need to answer that question. So are you suggesting I don't respect women? Despite finding that extremely insulting, I don't feel the need to explain myself to you. You can think what you want. What really irks me is the fact that you come on this forum and start acting like an ass towards me just because you disagree with my viewpoints on what species aren't good for beginners, you insult me several times in the process, and then you're gonna go around acting all nice towards everyone else, except for those who don't share your opinion on certain subjects. I try to avoid confrontations as often as I can, but this is seriously getting out of hand. I may actually be deleting my account I think. It was nice talking to everyone here.
That's a nice little speech Chubbs, but look back at my comments. Many people have disagreed with me, the only person I insulted was you, because I don't like you, or your passive aggressive crap, and you remind me of every fool that ever made snarky comments on arachnolords... You know, the forum you just can't stand to have criticized. If you can't spend as much time on a forum as you do and not be a silky boy when someone makes a comment or asks a question, maybe you should go back to AB..And uh, in response to the quoted post above me.. you posted that exact comment to the female poster of this thread...so if you wouldn't say that, why did you type it? Scroll up, Einstein..By the way Chubbs, back when you started the first one, when you accused me of being irresponsible for suggesting a beginner get a deadly Psalmopoeus, you seemed quite against it. But I noticed in a later post, to a beginner, you suggested the exact same thing. So what exactly were you doing, other than trying to look wise and then backpedaling, because someone called you on it? Is this about a real point of contention, or are your panties wadded up again? And when I get irritated at your smarmy little comments, and show some color, you get defensive, just like right now "This is seriously getting out of hand" ....FFS...You'll sit there and insinuate I'm an asskisser for being nice, then when I say something back,"OH LORDY IT'S GETTING OUT OF HAND" Grow a spine, boy.
