I live in Idaho i've ordered a number of times from Fear Not and Net-bug without any issue in the summer and dead of winter both. Haven't tried Swifts yet, they don't have what i'm looking for or are higher priced if they did.hi C...Tom's Big Spiders has a list of vendors he recommends...I have ordered from Jamie(2x and packed well both times - the roaches died and she replaced them FOC; sad to hear others have had problems - maybe it is certain employees)) ; from Swifts Invertebrates (Kelly is in Mississippi) and from Fear Not(but they are in Virginia so you probably dont want to ship that far)...all that being said I am in South Carolina and my Ts from Jamie were fine cross country - have not had any problems with any of those three...however, and one of my herp friends said this, be patient, wait for a show...no shipping and meet the vendor, and on Sunday(or last day) supply vendors reduce prices to unload stock before transporting home...I know I got a good deal on my GBB at the last show when I talked to the vendor...and so much fun to meet all those people. We are not alone crazy!
My B albipilosum is very much a display spider ... but which one I find most fascinating changes from day to day...and they do have personalities - wait until you have more than one to compare!
Unfortunately i'd have to drive 4 hours + one way to the closest invert show that would be worth a crap, so that's not an option for me, costs me less to pay shipping than put gas in my Jeep for that trip.