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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Chubbs" data-source="post: 64401" data-attributes="member: 1084"><p>Okay there bud, just trying to help. The comment I made regarding google had to do with the fact of not knowing which was arboreal and which was terrestrial in relation to the two species you mentioned. Google didn't give you the info that said they live communal, Google is just a search engine, the web sites that the results came from gave you that info, it's just a matter of being able to differentiate between the reliable sources and the unreliable sources. You made a good choice by coming to this forum to ask such questions, but you have to understand that not everyone will agree with what you say/do and that just kind of comes with the territory. One thing about hobbies like this is that you have to be able to take criticism without getting overly defensive about it. That's no reason to tell someone who's trying to help you to "**** off". I'm assuming you have a job/occupation or go to school or have applied for jobs/schools before? When a manager or co-worker/teacher or fellow student criticizes you or an idea you have, and tries to give you advice on something (regardless of if it's delivered exactly like you'd like to hear it), do you give them this same response? I mean, I totally understand where you're coming from, as I've only recently started paying a lot more attention to this myself and on trying to work on it, but on the other hand, it still does not justify that kind of behavior. The reason I made that remark to you was because it almost seemed like you were wanting us to explain how to do extremely basic things for you, that in all fairness, you should know how to do yourself. I can recommend a few great books to you, but you have to be willing to find out where to acquire them and then figure out how to go about getting them yourself, we can't do that part for you. Honestly though, I've noticed a few hostile posts in some of your other threads as well, and I'm not sure what the reasoning for that is, but I can tell you that it's not going to make people on this forum (or any) want to help you out.</p></blockquote><p></p>

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