Difficult choice :(

[tarantulaguy1994]

What did you have in mind for that?

 

[Wg25]

Awesome to read the news Wg! Congrats! Now that the war has been won it's time to do something nice for her.


May I interest you in a Hapalopus sp.Columbia Lg. ? Lol jk jk
Congrats man for real

Honestly considering the pumpkin patch!! They are not that expensive in SA!

 

[Wg25]

What did you have in mind for that?

Maybe the Hapalopus Sp columbia like n8tive said....or even some type of arboreal!

 

[tarantulaguy1994]

Sound like a good chose

 

[Kymura]

Thanks for the support guys! Now I think it's time to spice up my collection and celebrate with a new addition!

let her choose it, honestly, show her some beautiful adults and ask which she thinks is the most attractive ^^

 

[Wg25]

let her choose it, honestly, show her some beautiful adults and ask which she thinks is the most attractive ^^

Good Idea Kymura! Maybe if she sees how beautiful some adults can be she will consider getting one for herself haha

 

[MassExodus]

Good Idea Kymura! Maybe if she sees how beautiful some adults can be she will consider getting one for herself haha

Could you show her the pumpkin patch please, sir? We need more data..I'm testing as well. So far, there seems to be some truth to the theory..

 

[Wg25]

Could you show her the pumpkin patch please, sir? We need more data..I'm testing as well. So far, there seems to be some truth to the theory..

Will do MassExodus!! And will give you feedback on what she thinks but pretty sure that wil be my next T!

 

[RedCapTrio]

Glad everything turned out well for you @Wg25 And you didn't get around to actually selling your Ts. Good for you.

 

[Wg25]

Glad everything turned out well for you @Wg25 And you didn't get around to actually selling your Ts. Good for you.

Thanks alot RedCapTrio!

 

[Scoolman]

I am by no means a therapist of any sort. That being said, A good mate is able to accept you for who you are, and makes no effort to change you into something you are not. Conversely, a good mate also chooses to make changes that will please the other; catch 22, right?
My wife has zero interest in my tarantulas, will not enter my spider room, and will immediately leave the area if I have one out. However, she acknowledges the importance of the hobby to me, and the work I am doing with certain species. She does not want to see them, hear about them, or know anything about what I am doing with them. In return I am able to keep and work with whatever I want.
Over the years, though, she slowly become more accepting of them. She will listen to me when I have exciting news now, she will even indulge me when I want to show her pictures.
Be patient, accept her compromise of three, for now. You never know how time and exposure to these fascinating creatures will affect someone.
On another note, my wife does not like cats. When we met I had a cat that had been with me for many years. There was no debate to be had there. If push came to shove, I would have chose my cat. Good thing she didn't make me choose.
Our families complain about our dogs (Shi'Tzu, and 4 Shi'Tzu x Terrier, they are all very well behaved, and trained) even though everyone of them have dogs as well. I let them all know I would not board my dogs, nor leave them home unattended, thus the only choices are accept me and my dogs, or I stop visiting. They to accept us all together.

As for your choice of species, thats a tough one. They are all great specimen. Just pick the three you think will hold you over for the next year or two.

 

[Wg25]

I am by no means a therapist of any sort. That being said, A good mate is able to accept you for who you are, and makes no effort to change you into something you are not. Conversely, a good mate also chooses to make changes that will please the other; catch 22, right?
My wife has zero interest in my tarantulas, will not enter my spider room, and will immediately leave the area if I have one out. However, she acknowledges the importance of the hobby to me, and the work I am doing with certain species. She does not want to see them, hear about them, or know anything about what I am doing with them. In return I am able to keep and work with whatever I want.
Over the years, though, she slowly become more accepting of them. She will listen to me when I have exciting news now, she will even indulge me when I want to show her pictures.
Be patient, accept her compromise of three, for now. You never know how time and exposure to these fascinating creatures will affect someone.
On another note, my wife does not like cats. When we met I had a cat that had been with me for many years. There was no debate to be had there. If push came to shove, I would have chose my cat. Good thing she didn't make me choose.
Our families complain about our dogs (Shi'Tzu, and 4 Shi'Tzu x Terrier, they are all very well behaved, and trained) even though everyone of them have dogs as well. I let them all know I would not board my dogs, nor leave them home unattended, thus the only choices are accept me and my dogs, or I stop visiting. They to accept us all together.

As for your choice of species, thats a tough one. They are all great specimen. Just pick the three you think will hold you over for the next year or two.

Thanks scoolman! Appreciate it a lot!