I have not been able to vent sex very well on the apophysis yet I got a quick glance and I am suspecting it to be male. the stirmi i picked up at the reptile show last year and got a good look at him. i have a P. striata you can have a shot at. its only 1 3/4 I suspect to be male lets seeNot your average collection. Pretty impressive. We have similar tastes in spiders.
Have you sexed your apophysis yet? I've gotten pretty good at vent sexing immature stirmi and Poecs. If you post some clear vent shots of them without glare I may be able to unravel a few mysteries for you.